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A good week

The past few days have been very nice. On Valentine’s Day my boyfriend came over and brought me special vegan chocolate and a handmade flower. We ended up watching the movie “Prime“. Sadly the only good thing about this whole movie was Meryl Streep. The evening was really nice though. Because my boyfriend had an exam the day after, we will be going to an All You Can Eat Sushi buffet on saturday. I can’t wait to eat those mochis ahhh

Usually when I’m home and wasting my time on Tumblr I listen to Arirang Radio. I think they are a radio station based in Korea and thankfully they always speak english! It’s really calming to listen to them. My favorite part of the show is Sound K with DJ Leah! The other day I sent her a reply to one of her questions via Twitter and she retweeted it and read it outloud on the show!!

Another good thing that happened was that I finally got a username I always wanted for my Tumblr. I’m very active on there and I’ve been trying to find a URL I’m going to stick with since forever. My previous one used to be @wjsn, which is now a sideblog dedicated to the group. The one I’m using for my main blog now is @blackpink. I never thought I’d get this url since the previous owner of it didn’t reply to anyone asking them on their blog.

However I messaged them on their Instagram and asked nicely about it and she actually ended up letting me use it. Yay me!

The only thing bothering me this week has been my friend B, who I talked about in my previous post. I’m trying to distance myself, but it’s harder than I thought. Sigh.

Do you ever regret befriending someone?

I feel like a bad person saying this but I really regret befriending B. She is someone who gets stressed out very easily and annoys me with her clingy personality. I think B has a good heart, don’t get me wrong, so far she seems like a nice person. She helped me out a lot during exams and we talked on the phone very often. She also told me what’s been bothering her and I gave her advice.

But because of that B now asumes we are going to be best friends. Don’t get me wrong, I’m greatful for having met so many nice people in my university class. I just don’t see myself being best friends with someone like her. I’m not good with overly-sensitive people, especially not with ones that talk a lot. And by “a lot”, I mean 60mins long audio messages on WhatsApp. I still haven’t listened to those.

She messages me a lot and I don’t know how to react. I don’t want B to think that I’m just using her. You can’t force best-friendship, though, you know? I just think that you don’t need to be in permanent contact with people you usually see everyday and I really really enjoy silence. Sigh.

This must be one of the many struggles of an introverted person.

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